Why Pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy?

Write that when they say this chaplet in the presence of the dying, I will stand between My Father and the dying person, not as the just Judge but as the merciful Savior.

Diary, 1541

What is the Chaplet of Divine Mercy?
Jesus’ mercy is infinite. It’s always available to us, and He’s just waiting to give it to us. Unfortunately, we don’t always ask for it and we don’t always trust in it. Because He yearns to share His Divine Mercy with us, Jesus offers us a beautiful way to obtain it, and that’s through a devotion to the Divine Mercy Chaplet.

We know about the Divine Mercy Chaplet because of a Polish nun named St. Faustina. Jesus appeared to St. Faustina several times and revealed the Divine Mercy chaplet to her. Through a series of miracles, Jesus showed her the saving power that comes from praying the chaplet of Divine Mercy. By praying it devoutly, St. Faustina helped countless souls get to Heaven. Following her spiritual director’s advice, St. Faustina wrote down her visions of Jesus, and we can read about them today in Diary of St. Maria Faustina Kowalska.

Why Pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy
Why Pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy

The Divine Mercy Chaplet’s Power
Aside from the Mass and the Rosary, the Chaplet of Divine Mercy is the most powerful prayer we have. In praying the Divine Mercy Chaplet, we offer the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of Jesus, which unites our intentions to the sacrifice of the Mass. In other words, the Divine Mercy Chaplet is like an act of Spiritual Communion. Through this chaplet, we obtain forgiveness and intercede for the salvation of souls. Jesus grants plentiful graces to those who pray the chaplet, and it appeases the wrath of God. When someone prays the Divine Mercy Chaplet for a dying person, especially a dying sinner, that person’s soul will find peace, and their hour of death will be a happy one. Jesus promises that, “No soul that has called upon my mercy has been disappointed or brought to shame.”

(Check out a great blog post about Divine Mercy by Isabella from Bearing Good Fruit!)

Divine Mercy reminds us that it’s never too late to return to the Lord with open arms. When circumstances seem hopeless for a soul, praying the Divine Mercy Chaplet can make an eternity of difference. Especially at the time of death, praying this chaplet for someone will envelop their soul in the blood and water that flowed from Jesus’ side. The wrath of God will subside and His mercy will shine on that soul.

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An Eternal Difference
I learned at SLS 20 that our actions can have eternal consequences. I’ll always remember learning that our own choices, whether big or small, could mean Heaven or Hell for a soul. Understanding the promises and the power of the Divine Mercy Chaplet inspires me to pray it for the conversion of the world. We might not witness the difference that it makes for our family, friends, enemies, and strangers in this life, but when we go to Heaven, we’ll know in an instant who got there because of our intercession. Knowing these truths, I urge you to pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet with expectant faith, trusting that waves of mercy will engulf the world for the salvation of souls.

Jesus yearns to grant us His mercy. Will you ask for it on a soul’s behalf?

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The Original FOMO

When you call upon me and come and pray to me, I will hear you.

Jeremiah 29:12

As a millenial, I’ve faced so many of the “normal” life events that happen for us.
Especially those of us in our twenties. I have worked a job in the retail industry,
experienced college, graduated with a Bachelor degree, moved out on my own, bought
a car, been in my friends’ weddings, and am now working a full-time job in my current
field. Many accomplishments! But why am I still not happy? Why am I not satisfied? I
don’t have my dream job of working in a public school district teaching an exuberant
group of elementary school students. I don’t have all my student loans paid off. I don’t
have a full bank account. I don’t have a fiancé that I am planning to marry and start a
family with. Heck, I don’t even have a boyfriend that I can plan to have a future with. Yes,
all of that is coming from a glass-half empty attitude.

For the first few months of 2020, I’ve dwelled on the fact that my life isn’t perfect.
But what does perfect even mean? For those few months, I imagined that perfect was
having my life “together.” Having the ideal well-paying job, owning a house, planning a
wedding to a faith-filled man, beginning a family, and working on my Master’s degree –
all those things were “perfect” in my mind. Nothing about my life felt perfect for those
few months. I was in a deep, dark rut.

We may all think that we are brave, steadfast, and clear-headed in our pursuit of Jesus Christ and the Kingdom of Heaven. However, we are all human. We make mistakes. We have free will. We gossip, we forget to pray or attend Mass, we have selfish acts in the material world. Just two seconds ago, I checked my phone in the middle of prayer. I was distracted from the Word by the world. That’s the deep, dark rut I was living in. I may not have begun the hole in the ground, but I took the shovel from Satan and continued to dig that deep, dark rut farther and farther away from the Word as I tried to get closer to the world. The world had shackled me in my grave.

Wishes for marriage chained my arms behind my back, desires of material goods
pinned my legs to the dark soil, and a blindfold took my gaze away from the Holy One. I
was chained in the world that Satan wanted for me, and that world is a dark place. It’s
full of unhealthy thoughts, dishonest behaviors, and has no light from Jesus Christ.

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Yes, we live in the world. There are going to be distractions. Cars honking at us
while we worship on our commute to work, text messages chiming as we try to use our
phones to read scripture, or someone calling our name while we try to pray a novena or
rosary. The power that God gives us isn’t just in free will, but in how we chose to use
our free will. Will you put down your phone to do a 30-minute workout because it’s good
for your mental and physical health? Will you step aside from Netflix to watch mass online? Will you use your daily FaceTime check in to pray with friends and family
instead of gossiping? The choice is yours.

My surrender was a panic attack. I had these quite frequently while digging my
deep dark grave. Satan had control of my emotions and thoughts. Breaking free was
painful; resulting in tears, hyperventilation, and dropping to the ground. That’s how
strong the dark one’s hold is on us. Breaking those chains is not easy. However, for
how many chains that Satan has you tied down with, Jesus Christ has 10,000 more
reasons to love you.

The choice to break free is yours, mine, and ours

Yes, we are human. We make mistakes. The Lord sees that, recognizes that,
and forgives us when we seek redemption. It’s how we use our time to redeem. If we
keep rebutting ourselves as opposed to rectifying ourselves, with the Lord’s guidance
and strength, then we will truly come to know what it means. The season of Lent is
about change, forgiveness, and redemption. Jesus didn’t just die on the cross because
he wanted a YOLO moment. He is the Original, the OG. The original FOMO.

He created the everlasting, all powerful, reckless love of our God when He died
on that cross. Now why would we want to have the fear of missing out on God’s never-
ending love for us? Is the latest episode of your favorite show going to happen faster
than what you’ve been praying for? Maybe. Is your selfie on Instagram going to get likes
quicker than God’s plan for your life unfolding in front of you? Possibly. We are human.
We are naturally subject to the desire for instant gratification. However, that episode,
those Insta likes… they are nothing compared to the long term. The delayed
gratification that results in Jesus’ plan for us.

Jeremiah 29:11 reads, “For surely I know the plans for you, says the Lord, plans
for our welfare and not to harm, to give you a future with hope.”

But, Jeremiah 29:12 also says, “When you call upon me and come and pray to me, I will hear you.”

He hears us! He hears our cries from the deep dark grave. He hears, sees, and loves us all as we are. It is who we are. He takes us as we are. Jesus is madly in love with you and me. Before you were even conceived, Jesus had your plan sculpted out. The Lord breathed into you upon your first breath. The Lord has an overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love that He is dying to share with you. We pray with Him, and He prays with us. His love is the original love. So that fear that we are missing out on… is the fear of God’s undying love for each and everyone of us.

When Jesus died on the cross for us His intention was to take all those fears, anxieties, and worries away from us. He didn’t just unlock the shackles binding us to that deep dark grave, He broke the chains! He busted open the gates of Heaven for all of us to enter His Kingdom someday. 

Right now, times are scary. When I spoke to my grandmother, I asked her if she had ever seen our country, our world, in such a panic before. She said no, not since 9/11. Even during the Cold War, I asked. She responded, even during the Cold War we were allowed to leave our homes, socialize, and enjoy life. Right now, we are secluded to our homes because of COVID-19. Some with family, some without. Some with income, some without. Some with an actual home, and food, and shelter, many without. It is indeed a terrifying time – the year 2020 is not treating us kindly right now. But you are not alone. Not only do we have each other, but Jesus is carrying us through this trying time.

In John 19:30, Jesus uttered the words “it is finished,” as He bowed His head and gave up His spirit to His Father. Jesus had the fear of missing out on the love of His Father that he died on the cross to forgive all of the world of their sins. His love is the original love. When He breathed His last breath, Jesus breathed life into us.

Is it so easy to be more of the world than of the Word. I’ve been there, saints have been there, I’m sure that Pope Francis has been there, too. We are human. However, how we choose to ultimately live out our lives is the path that Jesus wants for us. He paid it all for us, so why wouldn’t we want to repay this to Him? Sometimes we don’t feel that we deserve it. But guess what? You deserve it! He loves you 10,000 times over. So come as you are. Come as a prodigal son or daughter, to Him in prayer and in life. Seek the Word, not the world, and all will fall into place. Ask for the original love of Jesus Christ, and you won’t have to experience the fear of missing out.

Leah Hoffman is a 26 year old Special Education teacher at a private school in the North Hills of Pittsburgh, PA. She is a devout Catholic who enjoys evangelizing and volunteering with her parish. 

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The Day the Lord has Made

This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad.

Psalm 118:24

Easter Memories
I have beautiful memories about every Easter Sunday that I can remember. Among pretty dresses, chocolate crosses, and the best Mass of the year, I vividly remember singing the beautiful lines of Psalm 118, “This is the day the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad.” Psalm 118 is one that’s so close to my heart. It’s the psalm that I remember being sung on every Easter Sunday. I find myself reciting verse 24 year-round. It’s on my mind when I wake up in the morning, when I feel the Lord’s presence, when I hear good news, and to remind me that bad days aren’t as bad as they seem. It’s triumphant and calming at the same time. The Lord makes every day. Every day is a gift. The Lord has conquered death and lives with us every day. Because of the Resurrection, we can rejoice and be glad every day.

The Day the Lord Has Made
The Day the Lord Has Made

He Makes Every Day Good
Unfortunately, we don’t always have this mindset. Not every day brings us reasons to rejoice and be glad. There are days that we feel meh, and we don’t want to do anything. I have days when I don’t even want to get out of bed. We have days when we feel like the world is against us, and we have days when we feel that God is far away. It can be hard to remember that the Lord makes these days too, and what He makes is always good. A saying that I learned in Bible Study helped me understand this. Not every day will be good, but there’s something good in every day.

I’m sure you might be finding it hard to celebrate Easter this year. I’m missing a beautiful Mass at my home parish, which is fittingly called Resurrection. I miss the joy that comes from celebrating the Mass on Easter Sunday, I miss the flowers that overflow from the church, and the jubilant music that makes my soul soar. I miss time with my extended family, especially because I haven’t seen them much lately and I’ll be moving this summer so I won’t be able to see them much next year.

But the Lord still rises today, and this is the day the Lord has made, so we’ll still rejoice and be glad in it.

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A Memorable Easter
Maybe this Easter will be the most memorable one. Maybe you’ll gather your family and watch Mass on TV before having a meal together and playing board games. This is what I’m doing with my family and I’ve been looking forward to it all week! Yes, there are things that we’ll have to give up this Easter, and some of them will be hard and even painful. I keep thinking about the Eucharist and how I still look forward to receiving it. Just remember that the Lord made this day, and even though it might not be all good, there’s going to be something good in it. As you celebrate Christ’s Resurrection today, find something good to rejoice and be glad in. If you need a suggestion, I recommend rejoicing in the Resurrection because Christ has conquered death and opened the gates of Heaven for you so that you can be with Him forever.

Have a wonderful, blessed Easter from Radiant with Joy. He is risen, Alleluia.

Stay radiant!

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This Sunday’s Gospel: April 12, 2020

John 20:1-9

On the first day of the week, Mary of Magdala came to the tomb early in the morning, while it was still dark, and saw the stone removed from the tomb. So she ran and went to Simon Peter and to the other disciple whom Jesus loved, and told them, “They have taken the Lord from the tomb, and we don’t know where they put him.” So Peter and the other disciple went out and came to the tomb. They both ran, but the other disciple ran faster than Peter and arrived at the tomb first; he bent down and saw the burial cloths there, but did not go in. When Simon Peter arrived after him, he went into the tomb and saw the burial cloths there, and the cloth that had covered his head, not with the burial cloths but rolled up in a separate place. Then the other disciple also went in, the one who had arrived at the tomb first, and he saw and believed. For they did not yet understand the Scripture that he had to rise from the dead.

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The Resurrection is the foundation of our faith. Because of this, it can be hard to place ourselves in the disciples’ shoes when Jesus died and rose from the dead. The crazy thing is, they’ve been told that all of this would happen. Jesus told them that He would go to Jerusalem, be crucified and die, and finally rise from the dead. Even though Jesus explained what would happen and how it would end, they still had to live through it. They still had to watch Jesus get arrested and mourn his death. On the first Good Friday and Holy Saturday, I’m sure it was hard to look forward to Jesus’ Resurrection. Maybe they forgot that He would rise or maybe they doubted while they were caught up in their grief Regardless, they found out on Sunday that Jesus rose. We already know how the story ends. Our people are an Easter people. So on Good Friday and Holy Saturday, we don’t wait in despair, but with joyful hope for Easter.

Stay radiant!

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Sharing in the Last Supper

“For this is my blood of the covenant, which will be shed on behalf of many for the forgiveness of sins.”

Matthew 26:28

Missing the Eucharist
I think it’s safe to say that we’ve all been missing the Eucharist lately. Especially today, I’m longing for the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of Jesus. My heart is breaking because we can’t go to Mass this Holy Thursday, when Jesus instituted the Eucharist, but at least for me, the next best thing is praying the Spiritual Communion prayer and reflecting on the beauty of the Eucharist.

The First Mass
Jesus told us that to be His disciples, we have to eat His body and drink His blood. It’s how He continues to abide with us after His Ascension, and it’s non negotiable. When Jesus celebrated Passover with His disciples, He offered them the first opportunity to partake of His Body and Blood. At the Last Supper, the twelve apostles were the first ones to receive the Eucharist. They were the first ones at the first Mass. Out of His everlasting love, Jesus constantly gives us the gift of Himself. He did this not only through His Passion on Good Friday, but also on Holy Thursday in the gift of the Eucharist.

Sharing in the Last Supper
Sharing in the Last Supper

Laying Down His Life
Both of these sacrifices express His love for us in big ways. Laying down His life for us is huge and visible, so we always associate His love with the cross. Although we receive the Eucharist often, sometimes we can take it for granted. It took me a long time until I realized that the Eucharist was and still is a sacrifice and Jesus’ gift of Himself. The next time you go to Mass, take a moment to let this reality sink in. The God of the Universe, who doesn’t need anything and is totally fine on His own, humbles himself into the form of bread and wine at the command of His priests so that He can be with his children. He doesn’t do this because He has to, but because He wants to. He loves us more than we’ll ever realize in this life, but receiving the Eucharist is a good place to start.

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Knowing Jesus Intimately
At the Last Supper, Jesus took plain bread and regular wine and made it His Body and His Blood. He does the same with us. He enters into our brokenness, our suffering, and our anxieties to redeem us through them. The Eucharist is how we follow Jesus the most closely. This holy communion is the most intimate way to know, love, and serve Jesus Christ. Every time we participate in the Mass, we take part in the Last Supper. Because Jesus exists outside of time, we participate in the Last Supper just as Jesus’ disciples did. By receiving the Eucharist, we play our part in salvation history. As His disciples, we have to eat Jesus’ Body and drink His Blood. Although we might not be able to do this today, we can still remember Him and remember the beautiful sacrifice and act of love that the Eucharist entails.

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8 Easy Ways to Spend Holy Week at Home

“Do you realize what I have done for you?”

John 13:8

Holy Week is finally here, but does it feel like Holy Week to you? It’s hard to even remember that it’s Holy Week without deciding which Mass you’ll go to, but you and your family can still celebrate Holy Week and prepare for Easter Sunday in the comfort of your own home. I thought of a few ways to spend Holy Week at home, and I wanted to share them with you!

1 Display palm branches around your house

I was scrolling on Twitter a few days ago and I saw a few pictures of beautiful palm branch arrangements hanging on front doors. This is a great way to show your neighbors that you’re celebrate Palm Sunday and Holy Week. You could also place some palm arrangements around your home. If you don’t have palm branches, that’s not a problem. John’s Gospel is the only one that specifies the use of palm branches, so you could use any greenery or branches to welcome Christ into your home!

2 Watch the Mass

Find a video or a live stream of Holy Thursday Mass or Good Friday service and watch it with your family. Find little ways to participate more fully in the Mass like dressing up, lighting candles, sitting, standing, and kneeling at the right times, saying the responses, and praying the spiritual communion prayer.

3 Wash each other’s feet

Bring this Holy Thursday Mass tradition into your home this Holy Week. After washing His disciples’ feet at the Last Supper, Jesus says, “If I, therefore, the master and teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash one another’s feet. I have given you a model to follow so that as I have done for you, you should also do” (John 13:14-15). Washing each other’s feet helps us not only to serve each other, but also to become more like Christ. Jesus spent His last evening serving His friends. Likewise, our hearts should be service-oriented, and washing feet is a good way to practice this.

4 Venerate a crucifix

If we can’t do this at a Good Friday Service, you can adapt it to take place in your home. Take a crucifix that’s hanging in your home and kiss Jesus’ feet. This tradition has taken place in the church for centuries as a sign of adoring Christ crucified.

Holy Week at Home
Holy Week at Home

5 Pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet or the Rosary

These powerful and beautiful prayers are a great way to meditate on the Passion and draw nearer to Christ. The Divine Mercy Chaplet and the Rosary are even more powerful when said in a group, which is yet another reason to pray them as a family!

6 Pray Lectio Divina with an account of the Passion

Immerse yourself in the Gospel readings about the Passion by praying Lectio Divina with them. If you want to read the whole account of the Passion, take turns reading it or read it in sections. Pause for a few minutes to let the Lord speak to you in the silence. Share which lines stood out to you and what the Lord is telling you.

7 Pray the Stations of the Cross as a family

The Stations of the Cross helps you to meditate on Christ’s Passion. There are several great videos to follow along with on YouTube, or you can search for a PDF or printable online. Your family could pick a leader or take turns leading each station, and you can stand and kneel as you would if you were praying Stations in church.

8 Watch the Passion of the Christ

Many Christian families gather to watch The Passion during Holy Week. Because it’s so graphic, parts of it can be hard to watch, but it’s worth it because you understand what Jesus went through so much more. I love how authentic everything about the movie is. I learned so much the first time I watched it, and I love to re-watch it and meditate on the Passion.

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Lately, I’ve been catching myself thinking of Jesus washing His disciples’ feet. Particularly, the verse “Do you realize what I have done for you?” comes to mind. I think this time of quarantine and social distancing is actually a gift from Jesus. He’s giving us an opportunity to work on our relationship with Him. With the Coronavirus Pandemic, He’s helping us to distance ourselves from our distractions and daily routine so that we can give Him our undivided attention. He’s allowing us to rebuild the domestic Church. Let’s gather our loved ones this Holy Week to draw near to the Lord. Let’s lose ourselves in remembering His Passion and recall that by His Cross, He set us free. This pandemic is definitely a cross that we have to bear, but the Lord is here in it and He’s using it to bring us back to Him.

Stay radiant!

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Hosanna: A Palm Sunday Reflection

The crowds that went ahead of him and those that followed shouted, “Hosanna to the Son of David! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord! Hosanna in the highest heaven!”

Matthew 21:9

What does “Hosanna” mean?
We chant “hosanna” every time we got to Mass, but what does it mean? “Hosanna” is a Hebrew exclamation of praise. It can mean save us, or salvation. By greeting Him with “hosanna,” the people show that they were aware that Jesus was the Messiah. They believed that He would save them, at least they did on Palm Sunday. Later that week, they condemned Him to death. The fickle crowds didn’t want Him anymore. Maybe He wasn’t who they thought He would be, or maybe they disagreed with His teachings. We can look at this crowd objectively and wonder how they could change their minds about Jesus so quickly. How could they reject the Messiah? But if we look at ourselves and the people around us, we realize that we’re no different.

Hosanna
Hosanna

When Welcome Becomes Rejection
We can know in our hearts that Jesus is our Savior but deny Him with the way that we live our lives. We can know His commandments but not follow Him. We can intend to pray but we never show up, causing our relationship with God to deteriorate. We consider donating or volunteering, but we opt out because we don’t feel like it. Like the people of Jerusalem, we find ourselves welcoming Jesus one moment, when it’s easy, and rejecting him the next moment, when it’s time to take responsibility and be His disciple. We see this too often in this world. I regret to say that I see this in myself. We have to strive to change this mentality, and we have to start with ourselves.

In the meantime, I’ll tell you the incredible thing about Jesus: He’s still Jesus no matter what we do.

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Still Our Savior
Our reaction to Jesus doesn’t change who He is. On Palm Sunday and Good Friday, He was and still is our Savior. Whether we follow Him or stray, He still pursues us. He suffered and died for all of His children, for His disciples and for the ones who tortured and crucified Him. Whether we shout “Hosanna!” or “Crucify Him!” Jesus still willingly gives up His life for us. It isn’t our love for Him that led to his Passion and Death, but it was His unwavering love for us. There’s nothing that you could do that would prevent your Savior from carrying the cross and being crucified for you.

So when we chant “hosanna” on this Palm Sunday, let’s make those hosannas the most genuine and heartfelt that we’ve ever uttered. Let’s rend our hearts and run to our Savior who suffered, died, and rose again so that you can spend eternity with Him in Heaven.

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This Sunday’s Gospel: April 5, 2020

Matthew 26:14-27:66

One of the Twelve, who was called Judas Iscariot, went to the chief priests and said, “What are you willing to give me if I hand him over to you?” They paid him thirty pieces of silver, and from that time on he looked for an opportunity to hand him over.

On the first day of the Feast of Unleavened Bread, the disciples approached Jesus and said, “Where do you want us to prepare for you to eat the Passover?” He said, “Go into the city to a certain man and tell him, ‘The teacher says, “My appointed time draws near; in your house I shall celebrate the Passover with my disciples.”’” The disciples then did as Jesus had ordered, and prepared the Passover.

When it was evening, he reclined at table with the Twelve. And while they were eating, he said, “Amen, I say to you, one of you will betray me.” Deeply distressed at this, they began to say to him one after another, “Surely it is not I, Lord?” He said in reply, “He who has dipped his hand into the dish with me is the one who will betray me. The Son of Man indeed goes, as it is written of him, but woe to that man by whom the Son of Man is betrayed. It would be better for that man if he had never been born.” Then Judas, his betrayer, said in reply, “Surely it is not I, Rabbi?” He answered, “You have said so.”

While they were eating, Jesus took bread, said the blessing, broke it, and giving it to his disciples said, “Take and eat; this is my body.” Then he took a cup, gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, “Drink from it, all of you, for this is my blood of the covenant, which will be shed on behalf of many for the forgiveness of sins. I tell you, from now on I shall not drink this fruit of the vine until the day when I drink it with you new in the kingdom of my Father.” Then, after singing a hymn, they went out to the Mount of Olives.

Then Jesus said to them, “This night all of you will have your faith in me shaken, for it is written: I will strike the shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be dispersed; but after I have been raised up, I shall go before you to Galilee.” Peter said to him in reply, “Though all may have their faith in you shaken, mine will never be.” Jesus said to him, “Amen, I say to you, this very night before the cock crows, you will deny me three times.” Peter said to him, “Even though I should have to die with you, I will not deny you.” And all the disciples spoke likewise.

Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and he said to his disciples, “Sit here while I go over there and pray.” He took along Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and began to feel sorrow and distress. Then he said to them, “My soul is sorrowful even to death. Remain here and keep watch with me.” He advanced a little and fell prostrate in prayer, saying, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from me; yet, not as I will, but as you will.” When he returned to his disciples he found them asleep. He said to Peter, “So you could not keep watch with me for one hour? Watch and pray that you may not undergo the test. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.” Withdrawing a second time, he prayed again, “My Father, if it is not possible that this cup pass without my drinking it, your will be done!” Then he returned once more and found them asleep, for they could not keep their eyes open. He left them and withdrew again and prayed a third time, saying the same thing again. Then he returned to his disciples and said to them, “Are you still sleeping and taking your rest? Behold, the hour is at hand when the Son of Man is to be handed over to sinners. Get up, let us go. Look, my betrayer is at hand.”

While he was still speaking, Judas, one of the Twelve, arrived, accompanied by a large crowd, with swords and clubs, who had come from the chief priests and the elders of the people. His betrayer had arranged a sign with them, saying, “The man I shall kiss is the one; arrest him.” Immediately he went over to Jesus and said, “Hail, Rabbi!” and he kissed him. Jesus answered him, “Friend, do what you have come for.” Then stepping forward they laid hands on Jesus and arrested him. And behold, one of those who accompanied Jesus put his hand to his sword, drew it, and struck the high priest’s servant, cutting off his ear. Then Jesus said to him, “Put your sword back into its sheath, for all who take the sword will perish by the sword. Do you think that I cannot call upon my Father and he will not provide me at this moment with more than twelve legions of angels? But then how would the Scriptures be fulfilled which say that it must come to pass in this way?” At that hour Jesus said to the crowds, “Have you come out as against a robber, with swords and clubs to seize me? Day after day I sat teaching in the temple area, yet you did not arrest me. But all this has come to pass that the writings of the prophets may be fulfilled.” Then all the disciples left him and fled.

Those who had arrested Jesus led him away to Caiaphas the high priest, where the scribes and the elders were assembled. Peter was following him at a distance as far as the high priest’s courtyard, and going inside he sat down with the servants to see the outcome. The chief priests and the entire Sanhedrin kept trying to obtain false testimony against Jesus in order to put him to death, but they found none, though many false witnesses came forward. Finally two came forward who stated, “This man said, ‘I can destroy the temple of God and within three days rebuild it.’” The high priest rose and addressed him, “Have you no answer? What are these men testifying against you?” But Jesus was silent. Then the high priest said to him, “I order you to tell us under oath before the living God whether you are the Christ, the Son of God.” Jesus said to him in reply, “You have said so. But I tell you: From now on you will see ‘the Son of Man seated at the right hand of the Power’ and ‘coming on the clouds of heaven.’” Then the high priest tore his robes and said, “He has blasphemed! What further need have we of witnesses? You have now heard the blasphemy; what is your opinion?” They said in reply, “He deserves to die!” Then they spat in his face and struck him, while some slapped him, saying, “Prophesy for us, Christ: who is it that struck you?” Now Peter was sitting outside in the courtyard. One of the maids came over to him and said, “You too were with Jesus the Galilean.” But he denied it in front of everyone, saying, “I do not know what you are talking about!” As he went out to the gate, another girl saw him and said to those who were there, “This man was with Jesus the Nazorean.” Again he denied it with an oath, “I do not know the man!” A little later the bystanders came over and said to Peter, “Surely you too are one of them; even your speech gives you away.” At that he began to curse and to swear, “I do not know the man.” And immediately a cock crowed. Then Peter remembered the word that Jesus had spoken: “Before the cock crows you will deny me three times.” He went out and began to weep bitterly.

When it was morning, all the chief priests and the elders of the people took counsel against Jesus to put him to death. They bound him, led him away, and handed him over to Pilate, the governor.

Then Judas, his betrayer, seeing that Jesus had been condemned, deeply regretted what he had done. He returned the thirty pieces of silver to the chief priests and elders, saying, “I have sinned in betraying innocent blood.” They said, “What is that to us? Look to it yourself.” Flinging the money into the temple,he departed and went off and hanged himself. The chief priests gathered up the money, but said, “It is not lawful to deposit this in the temple treasury, for it is the price of blood.” After consultation, they used it to buy the potter’s field as a burial place for foreigners. That is why that field even today is called the Field of Blood. Then was fulfilled what had been said through Jeremiah the prophet, And they took the thirty pieces of silver, the value of a man with a price on his head, a price set by some of the Israelites, and they paid it out for the potter’s field just as the Lord had commanded me.

Now Jesus stood before the governor, and he questioned him, “Are you the king of the Jews?” Jesus said, “You say so.” And when he was accused by the chief priests and elders, he made no answer. Then Pilate said to him, “Do you not hear how many things they are testifying against you?” But he did not answer him one word, so that the governor was greatly amazed.

Now on the occasion of the feast the governor was accustomed to release to the crowd one prisoner whom they wished. And at that time they had a notorious prisoner called Barabbas. So when they had assembled, Pilate said to them, “Which one do you want me to release to you, Barabbas, or Jesus called Christ?” For he knew that it was out of envy that they had handed him over. While he was still seated on the bench, his wife sent him a message, “Have nothing to do with that righteous man. I suffered much in a dream today because of him.” The chief priests and the elders persuaded the crowds to ask for Barabbas but to destroy Jesus. The governor said to them in reply, “Which of the two do you want me to release to you?” They answered, Barabbas!” Pilate said to them, “Then what shall I do with Jesus called Christ?” They all said, “Let him be crucified!” But he said, “Why? What evil has he done?” They only shouted the louder, “Let him be crucified!” When Pilate saw that he was not succeeding at all, but that a riot was breaking out instead, he took water and washed his hands in the sight of the crowd, saying, “I am innocent of this man’s blood. Look to it yourselves.” And the whole people said in reply, “His blood be upon us and upon our children.” Then he released Barabbas to them, but after he had Jesus scourged, he handed him over to be crucified.

Then the soldiers of the governor took Jesus inside the praetorium and gathered the whole cohort around him. They stripped off his clothes and threw a scarlet military cloak about him. Weaving a crown out of thorns, they placed it on his head, and a reed in his right hand. And kneeling before him, they mocked him, saying, “Hail, King of the Jews!” They spat upon him and took the reed and kept striking him on the head. And when they had mocked him, they stripped him of the cloak, dressed him in his own clothes, and led him off to crucify him.

As they were going out, they met a Cyrenian named Simon; this man they pressed into serviceto carry his cross.

And when they came to a place called Golgotha—which means Place of the Skull —, they gave Jesus wine to drink mixed with gall. But when he had tasted it, he refused to drink. After they had crucified him,they divided his garments by casting lots; then they sat down and kept watch over him there.And they placed over his head the written charge against him:This is Jesus, the King of the Jews. Two revolutionaries were crucified with him,one on his right and the other on his left. Those passing by reviled him, shaking their heads and saying, “You who would destroy the temple and rebuild it in three days, save yourself, if you are the Son of God, and come down from the cross!” Likewise the chief priests with the scribes and elders mocked him and said, “He saved others; he cannot save himself. So he is the king of Israel! Let him come down from the cross now, and we will believe in him. He trusted in God; let him deliver him now if he wants him. For he said, ‘I am the Son of God.’” The revolutionaries who were crucified with him also kept abusing him in the same way.

From noon onward, darkness came over the whole land until three in the afternoon. And about three o’clock Jesus cried out in a loud voice, “Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?” which means, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” Some of the bystanders who heard it said, “This one is calling for Elijah.” Immediately one of them ran to get a sponge; he soaked it in wine, and putting it on a reed, gave it to him to drink. But the rest said, “Wait, let us see if Elijah comes to save him.” But Jesus cried out again in a loud voice, and gave up his spirit.

And behold, the veil of the sanctuary was torn in two from top to bottom. The earth quaked, rocks were split, tombs were opened, and the bodies of many saints who had fallen asleep were raised. And coming forth from their tombs after his resurrection, they entered the holy city and appeared to many. The centurion and the men with him who were keeping watch over Jesus feared greatly when they saw the earthquake and all that was happening, and they said, “Truly, this was the Son of God!” There were many women there, looking on from a distance, who had followed Jesus from Galilee, ministering to him. Among them were Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of James and Joseph, and the mother of the sons of Zebedee.

When it was evening, there came a rich man from Arimathea named Joseph, who was himself a disciple of Jesus. He went to Pilate and asked for the body of Jesus; then Pilate ordered it to be handed over. Taking the body, Joseph wrapped it in clean linen and laid it in his new tomb that he had hewn in the rock. Then he rolled a huge stone across the entrance to the tomb and departed. But Mary Magdalene and the other Mary remained sitting there, facing the tomb.

The next day, the one following the day of preparation, the chief priests and the Pharisees gathered before Pilate and said, “Sir, we remember that this impostor while still alive said, ‘After three days I will be raised up.’ Give orders, then, that the grave be secured until the third day, lest his disciples come and steal him and say to the people, ‘He has been raised from the dead.’ This last imposture would be worse than the first.” Pilate said to them, “The guard is yours; go, secure it as best you can.” So they went and secured the tomb by fixing a seal to the stone and setting the guard.

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The same people who welcomed Jesus into Jerusalem by laying palm branches and their own cloaks on His path condemned Him to death just five days later. Do you find this hard to believe? Palm Sunday juxtaposes joy and tragedy. One moment there’s celebration and the next there’s mourning. It’s hard to comprehend this paradox of a holy day, but we don’t have to have all of the answers to enter into this day.

Maybe this is why parishes arrange processions with palms that begin outside of the church. Maybe this is why we read the Gospel reading like a script. God became man to live and dwell with us. He became one of us, meeting us where we are so that we could come to know Him more. Similarly, we strive to enter into Palm Sunday as Christ did.

We enter into Palm Sunday and Holy Week not only to remember Christ’s Passion, but to become part of it. Our Lord exists outside of time. Likewise, we play with temporality to become part of Palm Sunday and experience it with Christ. We recreate the sights and sounds and environment so that we can understand this day more clearly and follow Christ more closely. Let’s allow ourselves to participate in this day and encounter our Savior.

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How I Overcame Spiritual Comparison

Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.

Galatians 1:10

What is Spiritual Comparison?
I think we all struggle with comparison to some degree. I think everyone at some point in their life has compared their body, grades, talent, or relationship status to someone else’s. Personally, I compared myself a lot in dance. For most of my life, I compared myself to other dancers, which really damaged how I viewed myself until I learned to love myself as a dancer. Some comparisons are more visible than others. We’re more aware of issues like body image, and popularity, but have you ever heard of spiritual comparison?

Spiritual comparison involves comparing your own faith journey with someone else’s. You might look at someone else’s faith life and want what they have. Someone else might have more time to pray, be more involved in the Mass or in the parish community, receive the Sacraments more often, or be closer to God in general. You could look up to this person and strive to be like them, or you could let yourself feel discouraged by looking at this person. You might look at them and think that you’re a bad Catholic or God doesn’t love you as much, although this isn’t the case.

Spiritual Comparison
Spiritual Comparison

The Dangers of Spiritual Comparison
It’s important to remember that no one is perfect. It might appear that this person has a more fruitful prayer life, but they could be struggling with something you’re not aware of. It’s easy to think that the girls who always wear pretty skirts, always carry a rosary and a leather Bible, and pray a holy hour in the Adoration chapel every other day are the perfect Catholic, but you don’t always see what’s going on beneath the surface. This is why spiritual comparison can be dangerous.

My Difficult Journey
I used to look at others like this. I thought that I needed to mimic girls like these to a T to be a great Catholic. However, I was so busy with classes, meetings, and rehearsals that I didn’t have much time to pray or go to Mass. When I couldn’t do all of “the things,” as I like to call them, it made me depressed and bitter because I convinced myself that God didn’t love me as much as He loves His other daughters. Throughout college, I struggled with spiritual comparison a lot. It was a beast that was eating me alive, but learning its name helped me to tame it. When I realized what I was struggling with, I started looking for help. Unfortunately, help didn’t come right away.

For a long time, I was told by others and I told myself that I just needed to be better. I just needed to go to Mass and Confession more often, make more time to pray, and worry about school less. These things were easier said than done, so of course when I failed, I only grew more frustrated. I believed that I had to meet certain criteria to be a good Catholic, and the environment that I was in affirmed that falsehood.

Eventually, a few women who I trust a lot convinced me that this wasn’t the case. The reminded me of the simple truth that God loves me no matter what. In a society that tells us that our worth lies in our accomplishments or how hard we work, our Heavenly Father loves us unconditionally. We don’t have to do anything to earn his love. The things that we do as Catholics, like going to daily Mass, praying the Rosary every day, and going to Confession regularly, help us to love God more.

Doing the things strengthens our relationship with God and helps us to grow closer to Him. We don’t do the things because we want God to love us more; we do them because we want to love God more. Finally, I learned that it’s better to do the things that you can with love than to try to do more than you’re able. If you only have 30 minutes to pray, don’t try to pray a holy hour. If you can’t go to daily Mass every day of the week, go to one or two Masses. We know that it’s best to start small and work our way up, and our faith life is no exception. The Lord delights in the little things we do with great love, so no matter what you’re doing to improve your relationship with Him, do them out of love.

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Some Encouragement for your Journey
If you’re not as close to God someone else is, it’s okay. Everyone’s faith journey is different, so it’s better to focus on your own instead of comparing yours to someone else’s. Keep pursuing the Lord and following Christ in all things. If you’re struggling, ask Him for the grace to fix your eyes on Him and remember that you’re His beloved child. If you’re trying to overcome spiritual comparison, know that you’re not alone, and know that I’m praying for you.

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Why I’m Making a Home Altar

“Please, let us make a little walled upper chamber and let us set a bed for him there, and a table and a chair and a lampstand; and it shall be, when he comes to us, that he can turn in there.”

2 Kings 4:10

The Upper Room
I read a priest’s tweet a while ago that said if you can’t pray in your room then you can’t pray in a chapel. I felt that.

This semester, I decided I wanted to be more intentional about my prayer life. I decided I wanted to pray every day, and I did that by waking up early to pray in the Newman Center’s chapel before my classes. I really loved spending 30 minutes or a holy hour there every morning. It was the highlight of my day, but now because of the pandemic, I can’t go to the Newman Center anymore. I can’t go to public Masses, and I rarely get to pray at my church’s oratory because I hesitate to leave my house.

I know that the disciples always prayed in their upper room, so I figured that I should pray in my bedroom. I quickly convinced myself that this wasn’t ideal. As I’d try to pray a holy hour, I would keep getting distracted and reminding myself of how much I miss Mass and the Newman Center. I’d let myself become disheartened and I was losing my motivation to pray.

Why I'm Making a Home Altar
Why I’m Making a Home Altar

Making Space
I knew that I needed a designated space to pray, but my family doesn’t have a home altar. A few days ago, I felt really restless from being cooped up in the house. I knew that I needed to be productive and do something or make something, so as I was praying my holy hour, I felt inspired to make a home altar on my nightstand. It was pretty bare because I had just spring cleaned my room, so I made a little space for praying by putting my favorite rosaries on my nightstand and arranging my Bible and a few other books with a little statue and a prayer rock.

I plan on sprucing it up when I move out of my off-campus apartment. When I move everything back home, I’ll add my Catholic art collection to the wall above my home altar. I’ll add the rest of my prayer cards and booklets as well as a little cushion to kneel on. I also want to make a rosary holder to hang on the wall so I can display my rosaries.

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Creating a Space for God
In the Bible verse that I quoted at the beginning of this post, a woman made a space for Elisha to stay whenever he visited her. By doing this, she showed him that she wanted him there and made him feel welcome. When we make a home altar, we set apart a place for God. We show Him that He’s welcome in our home and we want Him to abide with us.

Although I’ve only had it for a few days now, my little home altar helps me to concentrate on praying and helps me to think of God instead of all the noise going on in my life right now. It offers me an escape from the stress of everyday life. My home altar reminds me that my Heavenly Father is still here, in the center of my life. By going to this designated space, I show Him that I’m willing to sacrifice my time and effort to know, love, and serve Him more and to strengthen my relationship with Him through prayer.

If you have any tips for putting together a home altar, I’d love to hear them!

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